You should elaborate on this a bit
Just to recap, I'm 21 so that should show the significance of how much this is effecting me.
1) Low Libido (to the point where my gorgeous wife has put on lingerie and I've told her I'm not interested, partially because I'm tired as hell 24/7 and because I'm just not interested in having sex)
2) Zero energy. I work a desk job so it's not like I have a reason to be tired, however I get off work at 330 and as soon as I sit down at home I pass out most days.
3) I go to the gym 5 times per week for 1-2hrs a day and have seen zero improvement. (To elaborate, my workout partner and I started at the same weight/reps and could run about the same distance/speed. He has now doubled his free weights and his bench has increased by 30%. I have increased by 10% putting in the exact same amount of work, however I eat a much cleaner diet.)
4) Mood swings (which is why the doctor thought I had bipolar. I have a two year old daughter (not bio) and I can't seem to control my temper no matter how minor the situation.)
5) Depression and Anxiety (This has been a factor for a few years but I have been prescribed over a dozen different medications and none of them have ever taken the edge off, but I know they're not placebos because occasionally I will get the bad side effects like suicidal thoughts, despite having everything in life I could ever ask for. Leading me to believe I have a chemical imbalance.)
I also believe I may have fertility issues. I have purposefully tried to have kids in the past to no avail. I have not had any fertility tests done though so I can't completely confirm this, but my wife is extremely fertile, leading me to think it's me.
Also seems like I have gynecomastia but not to the extent of some people, just that I carry more weight in my "tits" than most people. Seems much more noticeable when I am seated than standing. I also have tenderness near my nipples commonly which I have chalked up to high E2 after reading on various forums.
These things are all starting to effect my marriage and my role as a father. I want to be able to play with my kid after work, I want to be able to keep a level head and not get angry over the little things, and I want to have my libido back. It's not fair to my wife that she now thinks that I'm either cheating on her or not interested purely because I don't have libido. For a 21 year old couple it is pretty devastating to not have a sexual relationship. I can understand being in our 40s, done with having kids, settled in and ready to be empty-nesters but at 21 it doesn't seem healthy. At this point I'm almost willing to do anything to get a "normal" life back.