Masturbation frequency

[Nujace]

I’ve always looked at it as unhealthy. Spiritually, socially, physically etc…

it takes away drive and does all types of bad stuff to the brain. I have always tried to avoid doing it.

also sex is meant to unify and bond 2 people. Not isolate and shame one.

idk guys, just honestly ask yourself if jerking your own dick while hiding really feels like something a bad ass conqueror of a man would be doing. Lol. It’s shameful and has been normalized by the lowest level of society and is now seen as totally acceptable and healthy. While it’s really neither imo.

 

[FlowRW]

Well, I thought I was an average and normal male. Based on what some of you are preaching. . . I'm low life scum and going to hell just for doing something that feels great and not illegal in the privacy of my home.

 

[Nujace]

Well, I thought I was an average and normal male. Based on what some of you are preaching. . . I'm low life scum and going to hell just for doing something that feels great and not illegal in the privacy of my home.

Lol. you outlaw. I fell into the trap of believing it was cool and everyone did it and did it. But I just knew something was right about it. Kinda sketchy stuff. So then I started hearing about how guys wouldn’t jerk it or wouldn’t have sex leading up to a fight or conquest/contest. I listened to their reasonings for abstaining and they made sense. many men throughout the world have a somewhat similar story and feeling about it too.

Then I dug even deeper at stuff like “your brain on porn” and others. It’s super unhealthy! For every aspect of your being almost. So that’s when I quit quit. I don’t feel like I’ve missed anything lol. But n sure how to quantify how much better life got after stopping.

 

[Craig74]

Lol. you outlaw. I fell into the trap of believing it was cool and everyone did it and did it. But I just knew something was right about it. Kinda sketchy stuff. So then I started hearing about how guys wouldn’t jerk it or wouldn’t have sex leading up to a fight or conquest/contest. I listened to their reasonings for abstaining and they made sense. many men throughout the world have a somewhat similar story and feeling about it too.

Then I dug even deeper at stuff like “your brain on porn” and others. It’s super unhealthy! For every aspect of your being almost. So that’s when I quit quit. I don’t feel like I’ve missed anything lol. But n sure how to quantify how much better life got after stopping.

Well. You've inspired me to try to cut back.... though I'm taking this stuff called testosterone that is going to make it damn hard (pun intended).

Seriously though, my wife thinks my sex drive is excessive so sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. But I'll give it a try.

 

[FlowRW]

I don't put down people who do or don't. What ever works for you and whatever reasons you deem necessary. At my age and having seemingly semi-annual erections, I will take advantage when ever those happen, with my wife or not. Is it the same as being with my wife? Of course not but why waste a good erection.

 

[FangFang]

Well. You've inspired me to try to cut back.... though I'm taking this stuff called testosterone that is going to make it damn hard (pun intended).

Seriously though, my wife thinks my sex drive is excessive so sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. But I'll give it a try.

Give it time. Your wife will respond and adjust. Getting rid of releases from outside of the couples activity will make it appear your drive is higher to her. Maybe even tell her! When I stopped we had an adjustment period. I have to say I'm 100% in NuJace's camp on this one.

Just wait until you adjust as a couple and how great you will feel about yourself. And how the little things are now a big turn on as you detoxify your brain from porn or whatever material was used in masturbation. There is a great article on this topic. I'll try to find it and post.

 

[Coconutz]

definitely do not have to call people derogatory names and act like you are "better" than others. How happy does that make you when you compare yourself to others. For better or for worse. Cut the abuse and enjoy the forum man.

I'm sorry my not masturbating makes you feel that I think I'm better than you, thats not the case at all and I CLEARLY state that. If you re read every single thing I wrote from the beginning of this thread, I offered advice to what helped me.

However, many of yall are all butt hurt and defensive and justify your masturbation, which makes me need to butt out of this thread. You do you. I said what i needed to say, and gave MY opinion. And if a man beats his peter, well Fernando, that makes him a peter beater. I dont find that derogatory one bit. Call the act of hiding in the bathroom with a lotioned up hand fantasizing about(fill in the blank) whatever you want. ‍ I'll enjoy real flesh... to each their own

 

[Coconutz]

I’ve always looked at it as unhealthy. Spiritually, socially, physically etc…

it takes away drive and does all types of bad stuff to the brain. I have always tried to avoid doing it.

also sex is meant to unify and bond 2 people. Not isolate and shame one.

idk guys, just honestly ask yourself if jerking your own dick while hiding really feels like something a bad ass conqueror of a man would be doing. Lol. It’s shameful and has been normalized by the lowest level of society and is now seen as totally acceptable and healthy. While it’s really neither imo.

THANK YOU very much. I was a little concerned I was the only one thinking this. Know what that means?? More real live flesh for us. Lol. Chasing a mate in real life NOT on the internet is an instinct thats looooooong been forgotten by many men.

I feel some men just don't have the confidence to get themselves laid, then fall into the comfort of pleasing themselves and putting waaaaay less effort trying.. Fuck, I WISH I could cum daily. I'd rather fuck for hours once a week with that raging libido and please my partner. The anticipation makes the sex muuuuuch more enjoyable too. I can literally have multiple orgasms in a few hour long session. Sex is SO different without pleasing ourselves. So much more primal

I know maaaaaany men on here complain of low libido from trt. Want a libido? Try this for 8 weeks. DONT FUCKING MASTURBATE.

THEN come back on here and tell us all how much more enjoyable your orgasms when ya finally fuck. AND how much more confident and productive ya are in life.

What's it gonna hurt?? Try it guys.

 

[Fernando Almaguer]

THANK YOU very much. I was a little concerned I was the only one thinking this. Know what that means?? More real live flesh for us. Lol. Chasing a mate in real life NOT on the internet is an instinct thats looooooong been forgotten by many men.

I feel some men just don't have the confidence to get themselves laid, then fall into the comfort of pleasing themselves and putting waaaaay less effort trying.. Fuck, I WISH I could cum daily. I'd rather fuck for hours once a week with that raging libido and please my partner. The anticipation makes the sex muuuuuch more enjoyable too. I can literally have multiple orgasms in a few hour long session. Sex is SO different without pleasing ourselves. So much more primal

I know maaaaaany men on here complain of low libido from trt. Want a libido? Try this for 8 weeks. DONT FUCKING MASTURBATE.

THEN come back on here and tell us all how much more enjoyable your orgasms when ya finally fuck. AND how much more confident and productive ya are in life.

What's it gonna hurt?? Try it guys.

your apology is inauthentic, and has narc written all over it. peace dude. get help.. real flesh, ok what an eloquent way to say female person. Maybe a beef carcass is what you are into. In that case flesh is appropriate.

 

[tareload]

THANK YOU very much. I was a little concerned I was the only one thinking this. Know what that means?? More real live flesh for us. Lol. Chasing a mate in real life NOT on the internet is an instinct thats looooooong been forgotten by many men.

I feel some men just don't have the confidence to get themselves laid, then fall into the comfort of pleasing themselves and putting waaaaay less effort trying.. Fuck, I WISH I could cum daily. I'd rather fuck for hours once a week with that raging libido and please my partner. The anticipation makes the sex muuuuuch more enjoyable too. I can literally have multiple orgasms in a few hour long session. Sex is SO different without pleasing ourselves. So much more primal

I know maaaaaany men on here complain of low libido from trt. Want a libido? Try this for 8 weeks. DONT FUCKING MASTURBATE.

THEN come back on here and tell us all how much more enjoyable your orgasms when ya finally fuck. AND how much more confident and productive ya are in life.

What's it gonna hurt?? Try it guys.

I ran into your avatar today.

 

[Coconutz]

your apology is inauthentic, and has narc written all over it. peace dude. get help.. real flesh, ok what an eloquent way to say female person. Maybe a beef carcass is what you are into. In that case flesh is appropriate.

Lol. Wow. I see you understood my sarcasm. Narc?? Beef carcass?? Get help? What the fuck you taking about dude? Lol. I'm trying to help men like YOU that need it. I love triggering the simple minded, it's so easy. Haters gonna hate. YOU must be one of those men that dont have the condifence to get thenselves laid, if your that triggered by a complete stranger on the internet. I think you need to go hide in a dark room with a handful of Vaseline and tissues go release your stress.


And yes when I say flesh, meaning a real human and not my hand or a fleshlight,, I mean a female. I'm straight. And since since there are many *** men on here, I was being polite and respectful not saying how much i like to fuck pussy.

To each their own brother. Don't hate me because YOU jerk off

 

[Coconutz]

I ran into your avatar today.


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YOU must be one of those men that isn't confident enough to get themselves in real life, if your this triggered by a complete stranger that would rather get laid than masterbate. Lol. Post all the pics you want. Ain't gonna change the fact I just came in my girls ass. Where did YOU cum last?

 

[Fernando Almaguer]

Lol. Wow. I see you understood my sarcasm. Narc?? Beef carcass?? Get help? What the fuck you taking about dude? Lol. I'm trying to help men like YOU that need it. I love triggering the simple minded, it's so easy. Haters gonna hate. YOU must be one of those men that dont have the condifence to get thenselves laid, if your that triggered by a complete stranger on the internet. I think you need to go hide in a dark room with a handful of Vaseline and tissues go release your stress.


And yes when I say flesh, meaning a real human and not my hand or a fleshlight,, I mean a female. I'm straight. And since since there are many *** men on here, I was being polite and respectful not saying how much i like to fuck pussy.

To each their own brother. Don't hate me because YOU jerk off

You are absolutely wrong on all the assumptions you've made about me in your statement. Must be easy to know exactly what your talking about from a device from where ever your at. Bye joker.

 

[Deleted member 16042]

I don't care whether you masturbate or not. If you do, fine, If you don't fine. And discussion about masturbation frequency is just fine.

But I do care about this forum being a mutually respectful and safe environment for any adult to participate. Please stop the name calling, disrespect, baiting and rising to the bait.

This is not a forum for personal insult whether by words or memes/avatars, nor chest beating about how great an ass fu*&er you are.

Grow the Fu&k up and make this forum a place worth participating without this kind of BS.

 

[Fernando Almaguer]

I don't care whether you masturbate or not. If you do, fine, If you don't fine. And discussion about masturbation frequency is just fine.

But I do care about this forum being a mutually respectful and safe environment for any adult to participate. Please stop the name calling, disrespect, baiting and rising to the bait.

This is not a forum for personal insult whether by words or memes/avatars, nor chest beating about how great an ass fu*&er you are.

Grow the Fu&k up and make this forum a place worth participating without this kind of BS.

I share the sentiment. Thank you

 

[Vince]

We're getting to critical on this thread. Play nice or the thread will be closed.

 

[tareload]

We're getting to critical on this thread. Play nice or the thread will be closed.

Or just hit pause on the silky smooth troll.

 

[Coconutz]

We're getting to critical on this thread. Play nice or the thread will be closed.

Just close it. Hard to take this thread seriously anymore. Cracks me up how butt hurt everyone gets defending masturbation lol. Like addicts justifying their drug use. We all gotta get our dopamine some way. To each their own

 

[tareload]

Just close it. Hard to take this thread seriously anymore. Cracks me up how butt hurt everyone gets defending masturbation lol. Like addicts justifying their drug use. We all gotta get our dopamine some way. To each their own

Really it is just you that is challenging to take seriously. Why are you speaking about closing someone else's nicely set up thread?

Go troll at the Encephalopathy forum. You may have a better run.