Masturbation frequency

[Coconutz]

Wow. You can spot chronic masturbators out in public? That's quite the superpower!

After all that I wrote, that's all you have to say in response?? Your passive aggressive way of responding my post, tells me that YOU are one of the chronic masturbators that's walks right passed

You never answered my question to you, in your response to my post

The fact that you refer to it as defiling oneself says it all. Notice it's never the chronic masturbators that try to moralize sexuality and force their beliefs on others.

I'm searching right now for which language masturbation, means 'to defile oneself'. I didn't make that up dude

 

[tareload]

After all that I wrote, that's all you have to say in response?? Your passive aggressive way of responding my post, tells me that YOU are one of the chronic masturbators that's walks right passed

You never answered my question to you, in your response to my post.

I'm searching for the definition right now

I'm searching right now for which language masturbation, means 'to defile oneself'. I didn't make that up dude

This thread is hilarious. Will be be barbecuing people later today?

masturbation | Etymology of masturbation by etymonline

"deliberate erotic self-stimulation," 1711 (earlier as mastupration, 1620s), from French… See origin and meaning of masturbation.

www.etymonline.com

https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJM183503250120703

 

[Coconutz]

This thread is hilarious. Will be be barbecuing people later today?

masturbation | Etymology of masturbation by etymonline

"deliberate erotic self-stimulation," 1711 (earlier as mastupration, 1620s), from French… See origin and meaning of masturbation.

www.etymonline.com

https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJM183503250120703

Lol. Seeeee! I didn't make that up lol.

 

[FunkOdyssey]

So it looks like the Latin roots of the word masturbate mean something like "to defile with the hand"? Lol. That's hilarious how the moral judgment is baked right into the word. Thanks @readalot.

 

[tareload]

So it looks like the Latin roots of the word masturbate mean something like "to defile with the hand"? Lol. That's hilarious how the moral judgment is baked right into the word. Thanks @readalot.

Yes you have to understand the religious context and underpinnings of the coined term at the time.

Meanwhile all the priests were in the back room...

 

[BJE]

As a 41 year old, single man, I haven't masterbated in yeeeears. I used to all the time, and it absolutely rewires the brain to not crave REAL sex anymore and destroys libido. Especially while watching porn at the same time. Porn, and the ability to make ourselves have an orgasm at ANY given moment of the day, is completely unhealthy for men. Everybody loves cumming, as it's the most amazing feeling on the planet. But sexual energy is supposed to be shared with another human, and not released ourselves. Think of human evolution. The men that are jerking themselves off are NOT procreating withinthe tribe.. It's straight up beta Behavior amongst the rest of the men.

It's all about discipline. I wish I could feel an orgasm multiple times a day. It's like a drug. If some of yall feel the need to make yourself cum every time your dick gets hard, your lacking dopamine responses elsewhere in your life. Focus that energy on something else instead of jacking off. Maybe talking to some REAL women, than can sense your horned up?(or whoever your attracted to) Go to the gym? MAKE MONEY, Take a jog? Go cook a meal. ANYTHING except lotioning up ONE hand

I can actually spot the chronic masterbaters while out in public. Half can't even look you in the eyes when they speak. All fidgety and completely lack confidence. I've actually walked by men in public places WATCHING porn right there on their phones. And i guarantee he beat his dick like it owed him money in the public bathroom with the boner that he gave himself in the food court of the mall. This is a sickness that I once had myself, so don't think I'm talking down to those that do. Think of what YOU actually look like while your jerking off, It's so sad and lonely and NOT what attracts a partner.

Have fun justifying jacking the meat boys. I'll save my sexual energy for the pussy that's walking right passed yall while your jerking off. I personally would rather have sex once or twice a week, than masterbating much more than that. To each their own. ‍

I consider porn viewing as something totally separate from masturbation. I’ve never masturbated to porn. I think it’s much more likely that the condition you describe is because of porn use rather than masturbation.

 

[BJE]

How old are you? I'd love to hear everybody's age that justifies defiling oneself

Defiling oneself is a judgement on your part. Is sex with someone you aren’t married to also defiling?

 

[tareload]

I consider porn viewing as something totally separate from masturbation. I’ve never masturbated to porn.

I know right? Kind of like watching a good Nature show.

 

[BJE]

It does! Masturbating means your fantasizing about someone else if your partner is right there in front of you. There's something lacking in the relationship if that's the case

Masturbation does not need to include fantasy about anyone. On the rare occasions that I have done it there is no fantasy involved whatsoever. I am capable of feeling sexual pleasure without thinking about someone.

 

[Coconutz]

I consider porn viewing as something totally separate from masturbation. I’ve never masturbated to porn. I think it’s much more likely that the condition you describe is because of porn use rather than masturbation.

Porn is absolutely worse, but jerkin off close behind. It's that dopamine rush of an orgasm is what we all seek. whether from porn, or manual stimulation. Our subconscious learns we don't need a mate after a while, whether porn or masturbation. It's sexual energy/semen that we release into whatever catches it. That's not the way I chose to release my libido any longer.

 

[Coconutz]

Masturbation does not need to include fantasy about anyone. On the rare occasions that I have done it there is no fantasy involved whatsoever. I am capable of feeling sexual pleasure without thinking about someone.

Like i said earlier. Your hooked on the dopamine. That's just the way YOU chose to get it

 

[BJE]

Well @readalot, how many times is it then?

Haha, kidding. My objections are that it wastes time and that porn is the quintessential example of technological artificial stimulation that desensitizes us to natural rewards. I have a rule that if I do it, there should be no porn involved. In my opinion that rule is sufficient to keep you out of trouble and keep the frequency low.

Masturbation with porn and without porn are two different things in my opinion. I don’t view porn and I personally don’t understand the need for it in masturbation. I think the pleasure itself should be enough stimulation to reach climax.

 

[BJE]

The fact that you refer to it as defiling oneself says it all. Notice it's never the chronic masturbators that try to moralize sexuality and force their beliefs on others.

I think masturbation among men is almost universal, especially if they are single or in a sexless marriage.

 

[excelnelg]

After all that I wrote, that's all you have to say in response?? Triggered, or ashamed of your chronic masturbation? Your passive aggressive way of responding my post, tells me that YOU didn't even comprehend my entire post. Because if you reread it, you'll see that I said I also had a problem with chronic masturbation and I wasn't talking down to anybody. I was giving advice as to what helped ME. To help YOU. Justify it all you want. Chronic masturbation isn't healthy.

You never answered my question to you, in your response to my post about how old you are. Because in my opinion, this is a generational thing. If you have the time to chronically masturbate multiple times a day, you obviously don't have a career/business to focus on all day long.

'Force' My beliefs?? This is an open forum dude. I gave you my opinion. Sorry if it offends you that some men don't chronically mastburate and would prefer the company of another human. If you don't like what I wrote, it wasn't meant to help YOU.

What you wrote isn't worth a serious reply. Talking to hear yourself talk at this point.

 

[BJE]

After all that I wrote, that's all you have to say in response?? Triggered, or ashamed of your chronic masturbation? Your passive aggressive way of responding my post, tells me that YOU didn't even comprehend my entire post. Because if you reread it, you'll see that I said I also had a problem with chronic masturbation and I wasn't talking down to anybody. I was giving advice as to what helped ME. To help YOU. Justify it all you want. Chronic masturbation isn't healthy.

You never answered my question to you, in your response to my post about how old you are. Because in my opinion, this is a generational thing. If you have the time to chronically masturbate multiple times a day, you obviously don't have a career/business to focus on all day long.

'Force' My beliefs?? This is an open forum dude. I gave you my opinion. Sorry if it offends you that some men don't chronically mastburate and would prefer the company of another human. If you don't like what I wrote, it wasn't meant to help YOU.

This poll has nothing to do with chronic masturbation and by the results so far I wouldn’t consider the respondents to be chronic masturbated. Chronic masturbation may be a concern but most men who masturbate aren’t doing it multiple times per day.

 

[BJE]

Yes you have to understand the religious context and underpinnings of the coined term at the time.

Meanwhile all the priests were in the back room...

I don’t think there should even be a religious discussion on masturbation if you are a believer in the Bible. The Bible has no mention of masturbation so it’s a moot point.

 

[BJE]

Porn is absolutely worse, but jerkin off close behind. It's that dopamine rush of an orgasm is what we all seek. whether from porn, or manual stimulation. Our subconscious learns we don't need a mate after a while, whether porn or masturbation. It's sexual energy/semen that we release into whatever catches it. That's not the way I chose to release my libido any longer.

Masturbation doesn’t keep me from my mate. Sex with a partner is way better than solo sex.

 

[Coconutz]

Masturbation does not need to include fantasy about anyone. On the rare occasions that I have done it there is no fantasy involved whatsoever. I am capable of feeling sexual pleasure without thinking about someone.

I think masturbation among men is almost universal, especially if they are single or in a sexless marriage.

Sure, when growing up and learning what your own penis does. I'm single and haven't made myself cum in probably 6-7 years. So I jerked off till my 30s. That's a LOT of masturbation. Sooooo much wasted time and energy. Once i learned discipline, meditation, started training jiu jitsu, quit drinking, all that went away. Once a man becomes completely confident in himself, and what he's capable on life, how other men and women perceive him, there's no need for masturbation.

 

[BJE]

Like i said earlier. Your hooked on the dopamine. That's just the way YOU chose to get it

I get my dopamine from nearly daily sex with my wife. That and working out. I wouldn’t deny single me that dopamine release.

 

[Coconutz]

What you wrote isn't worth a serious reply. Talking to hear yourself talk at this point.

Hence, me being on a forum.

So for the third time , how old are you?

Probly old enough for me to continue believing chronic masturbation is a general thing. Lol