WAS: 5 months post stopping TRT cold turkey bloodwork , NOW: Wife No Longer Wants Sex

[Guided_by_Voices]

I am saddened by your situation and I hope that you find a resolution. Note that by restricting yourself to vows that your (former) "wife" has partially renounced, you may also be denying a potential romantic partner the same experience you are missing in your life. There is almost certainly a deserving lady in a similar situation, so consider that it's not just about you, you're making a decision for some as yet unknown person as well. Good luck to you.

 

[Nelson Vergel]

Hey guys

Very good and interesting conversation about partners not responding anymore to intimacy and sexual advances, making it difficult to satisfy your improved sex drive with TRT.

I would like to move all posts related to the new topic to a separate thread with a proper title, "How to deal with a sexually unresponsive partner while you are on TRT," but the Xenforo software does not allow me to select certain posts in a thread to move them to a new thread.

Why am I telling you this? Because the original question/issue on this thread was about lab numbers after quitting cold turkey. It was then "highjacked" (sorry for the term) by another topic that grew into the main thread discussion.

What can you do? Be aware of this so that other men can be helped by your post by making sure you create a new thread with a title that corresponds to the great topic you are about to divert the conversation to.

I will talk to my developer about writing new code to separate topics when threads evolve into other topics not related to the title.

Thoughts?

 

[FunkOdyssey]

It's an easy fix with hormone therapy, yet she doesn't care anymore.

Knowing what I know now, before marriage, I would confirm that a woman was willing to do whatever was necessary in terms of HRT to maintain their sexual function through middle age and beyond. Otherwise, you have a good chance of spending the last half of your life in a dead bedroom situation, no matter how well you maintain your own sexual appeal and function, and no matter how good of a partner you are.

Fortunately, my wife is open to HRT and has been a good sport about the trial and error involved with dialing in (just as much hassle as men have with TRT).