The problem with drink a beverage containing artificial sweetener and then testing BG, it's a stupid test.
I'm sorry you think it's "stupid," but that's exactly what diabetics do to see how different things affect their blood sugars. It is quite definitive.
Because it takes weeks for your gut microbiota to change, it isn't an immediate response. (And some take probiotics, who know if this counters the problem?)
That's an interesting theory and could be true. Right now there's no clinical evidence to support it.
I get concerned because I do drink a lot of diet soda, and it has never seemed to really help me lose weight. At best it's just a lot of chemicals that hopefully isn't harmful used to deliver caffeine. (But it's hard to stop.)
You're right that studies have never shown that those using artificial sweeteners lose any weight compared with those who don't. They may, or may not, raise blood sugars in some patients. They may, or may not, increase hunger in some patients. If you don't want to use them, don't use them.
One thing I wanted to know about testing insulin, how much insulin am I producing?
If you really want to know if your pancreas is still producing insulin (and I would guess that it is), take a C-peptide test. That's the gold standard. The serum insulin test doesn't tell you that.
If I am insulin resistant, then losing weight should help a lot, if I don't produce enough insulin then it's a different and more serious problem. (or some combination of the two)
It doesn't really matter how insulin resistant/low insulin producing you are. The problem is not why your blood sugars are too high, it's that they are. The treatment is the same either way: lower your blood sugars by the methods I've previously described. Losing weight is always a good thing if you're overweight. It may or may not have a beneficial effect on your blood sugars.
I am fully convinced lowering carbs will lower BG, but how much do I need to lower carbs in my situation? I don't want to go to a 30 gram per day total unless I absolutely have to.
The only way to know is trial and error. As I mentioned earlier, try going below 100 grams of carbohydrate/day. If that's not enough, try less than 50 grams/day. If that's not enough, try less than 30 grams/day. If that's not enough, add oral agents (metformin, etc.). If that's not enough, add insulin.
Last night I ate 12 bugger king chicken nuggets and a small couple of oz piece of apple strudel, probably about 85-90 grams of carbohydrates total for that one meal, an hour later my BG was 126, I took a short walk for 15 min, BG was 114 after that, when I woke up it was 89. That seems reasonable to me.
If those numbers seems reasonable to you, OK. To me, most of those wouldn't be acceptable numbers and are not the numbers exhibited by those with truly normal blood sugars (the fasting number, in and of itself, is not troubling). And I do seem to recall your describing having post-prandial blood sugars of 177, 156, etc., and fasting blood sugars over 110.
I don't drink enough alcohol to really affect anything longer term, at most 2 beers a week or a margarita with mexican food, sometimes nothing at all for weeks.
Not sure what you mean by "longer term." Alcohol, per se, doesn't raise blood sugar. Its effect is complicated. Its hepatic metabolism is prioritized over carbohydrates, and therefore can delay blood sugar rises. Some alcoholic beverages (beer, sweet cocktails, etc.) also contain lots of carbohydrates and sugars, and these have their own effects. But sounds like bottom line you don't drink alcohol often enough to need to accommodate it in your plan.
The good news for me, I am down from 168 > 162, all fat maybe added in a few lbs of muscle. My first pass goal is ~150 lbs.
That's good news. It may or may not have some beneficial effect on your fasting and post-prandial blood sugars.