tropicaldaze1950
Well-Known Member
Our relationship/marriage of 32 years has been difficult, due to my wife trying to emotionally run away from many issues in her life, including sublimating her desire for women. We started sleeping apart because of my sleep problems from bipolar illness and her sleep issues, but I also had anger and resentment towards her. None of it matters now. She's into her third year of Alzheimer's and I'm caring for her.Interesting... I just read an article that said it's a common thing for this generation to sleep apart. I'm old school, I need my wife next to me or I can't sleep.
Being as how as men we don't have a vulva or breasts (at least most of us don't), If a woman craves that and you are comfortable in your relationship, then why not let her have the occasional dalliance. If it came down to physical and emotional preference for women, then obviously you are in a doomed relationship. Just as long as it is understood that there is only one penis in the equation. But... that's just me.
I don't have to even consider that scenario as my wife is not even slightly inclined towards that.