My wife just hit 50, and is fed up with her menopausal symptoms. Her primary physician is worthless, so I got her an appt with a female FNP who supposedly has much experience in HRT for women. Now, I know what questions to ask a physician concerning male HRT, but haven't a clue what my wife should ask concerning women's HRT, you know, to test the FNP's level of competence. Any help?