Hello I’m new here and looking for some good information and help. I posted this on th wrong spot earlier.
I’m a WM 42 5’9” 260 ( losing weight now goal is 200) non smoker or drug user I have one or two mixed drinks a month before bed. I work outside 9-10 months a year in Landscaping and commercial fishing.
I started testosterone treatment in May 2017 because of a lack of energy and not able to lose weight but no sexual problems. My PC doctor tested showed 269 for my T 2 days later at the Men’s Wellness Center they said my T was 156. So I started treatment I saw increased energy as they adjusted the dose but in the first week of October my issues started. I began having trouble maintaining a erecting. I get hot in the head, face and neck my DW said I’m flush and feel like on fire. Once this starts it’s over until i cool off. I had my 6 month recheck in the beginning of November they said my T was 1126 and estrogen was 31 I started anastrozole 1 mg every Tuesday. The hot flashes have gotten worse and start to cause issues with my DW as she said I’m not turned on by her. I had a recheck in December and February my estrogen is at 27 both times and doctors said it in the range but they don’t know of every hearing if hot flashes and sweating causing ED. They act like men can’t have a hot flash
I told the doctors office yesterday I was going to discontinue T treatment do to this. I then meet a guy at the office having the same issues we talked about what we had found out about the issues and it seems most sites men said leaves need to be close to 20 for The estrogen. He was taking 1.5 mg of anastrozole a week he was mid 50’s but in great shape.
I need help my DW thinks it a issue with her I have tried Viagra to try to cover it some but the hot flash hits I stay hard but can’t finish. I have been hiding the fact of Viagra use until a few nights ago I just couldn’t lie anymore or make excuses . She knows all the other stuff and I share what I find online about my issues and she has done a bunch of research. I did not have a ED issue before treatment I hate to give up my energy as I lose that at 40 just started felling tried all the time but we had sex 4-5 times a week sometimes multiple times a day.
She has asked me to have an fling to see if it’s her it’s missing with her mind and self confidence. I worried it’s going to ruin my marriage if I can’t fix this.I’m not going anywhere I love my DW.
Help
I’m a WM 42 5’9” 260 ( losing weight now goal is 200) non smoker or drug user I have one or two mixed drinks a month before bed. I work outside 9-10 months a year in Landscaping and commercial fishing.
I started testosterone treatment in May 2017 because of a lack of energy and not able to lose weight but no sexual problems. My PC doctor tested showed 269 for my T 2 days later at the Men’s Wellness Center they said my T was 156. So I started treatment I saw increased energy as they adjusted the dose but in the first week of October my issues started. I began having trouble maintaining a erecting. I get hot in the head, face and neck my DW said I’m flush and feel like on fire. Once this starts it’s over until i cool off. I had my 6 month recheck in the beginning of November they said my T was 1126 and estrogen was 31 I started anastrozole 1 mg every Tuesday. The hot flashes have gotten worse and start to cause issues with my DW as she said I’m not turned on by her. I had a recheck in December and February my estrogen is at 27 both times and doctors said it in the range but they don’t know of every hearing if hot flashes and sweating causing ED. They act like men can’t have a hot flash
I told the doctors office yesterday I was going to discontinue T treatment do to this. I then meet a guy at the office having the same issues we talked about what we had found out about the issues and it seems most sites men said leaves need to be close to 20 for The estrogen. He was taking 1.5 mg of anastrozole a week he was mid 50’s but in great shape.
I need help my DW thinks it a issue with her I have tried Viagra to try to cover it some but the hot flash hits I stay hard but can’t finish. I have been hiding the fact of Viagra use until a few nights ago I just couldn’t lie anymore or make excuses . She knows all the other stuff and I share what I find online about my issues and she has done a bunch of research. I did not have a ED issue before treatment I hate to give up my energy as I lose that at 40 just started felling tried all the time but we had sex 4-5 times a week sometimes multiple times a day.
She has asked me to have an fling to see if it’s her it’s missing with her mind and self confidence. I worried it’s going to ruin my marriage if I can’t fix this.I’m not going anywhere I love my DW.
Help