You do not mention your age but I see your name is forty2 so I guess that is it. Inability to ejaculate is a form of ED. It is usually in older men and related to prostate activity or lack thereof. Finasteride is famous for causing lack of ejaculation. Once lost by medication or otherwise it is hard to recover. The volume reduces as we get older and eventually may only be a few drops.
I recommend addressing the prostate by adding zinc with an appropriate copper ratio along with some other supps. Prostate formulas vary from good to useless. Prosta-Strong by Irwins is pricey but look at the ingredients to get an idea of what individual things you can add to the zinc. Pumpkin seeds are high in zinc and you will see the oil in good formulas.
After several weeks of supplemental therapy, do some work on ejaculation by self stimulating and even watch porn if you need to.
When having sex, the striving for climax is the time when susceptible men can get a heart attack. When both have had a good time, you can quit for the day. I would not subject a partner to half-hour of oral just to try and get a climax.
Women generally feel that if you don't climax they did not do a good job. It is usually the man's own ability that is the problem. Let a partner know you have the issue so you can stop after a while and not overdo both of you.
The other issue is the dose of
enclomiphene. I consider you are on a high dose. It comes in 6.25, 12.5, and 25. I alternate between 6.25 and 125 but that's just me. I have been doing men's health for about 10 years and have used regular clomiphene a lot. The cis isomer is different and dosing is different.
ALERT for all reading this. If you don't know yet, all oral 5DPEs will stop working after a time of 3-5 years generally but in some can work for up to eight years.
The receptor that reacts to the medication becomes desensitized and will respond less and less to finally nothing. This info is not available on the package insert or on the internet generally. I found this out by having a discussion with an enzyme physiologist, PhD who explained how it works and finally does not work.
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