ResearchIt
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42 years old
6'1" 190lbs
Never smoked, don't drink, no drugs, no medication, no accidents, no porn, no surgeries, good health, eat clean, don't work out a lot but pretty active.
First sexual symptom ever was age 37 when I noticed a little bit of decreased sensitivity because it took a few more thrusts and effort to orgasm when wearing a condom. At this age of 37 I also lost a little bit of hair around my crown and I got a tiny bit of extra fat on my chest and lats and waist. But not a big deal. Still no issues ever with libido, erections, or orgasm until about age 41.
At age 41 I began to feel some real changes. I still have a strong interest in sex, but I don't feel horny all the time like I used to. I used to feel a high sexual tension that needed to get released frequently, and then when released it was gone and I felt relaxed. I don't feel that tension like I used to. I developed a few gray hairs. My penis seems a bit more shriveled when flacid and less full of life. Erections are usually ok, but not like before. It now requires more stimulation and even some days it doesn't get up very well. Nocturnal erections still happen, though not as much. Morning erections and spontaneous erections are rare now. Erections solely from sexual thoughts are very difficult to achieve. Penis and genital area sensitivity is noticeably lower than before - not numb but not great. Less sensation around penis, scrotum, testicles, perenium, anus, and pubic bone. Orgasms used to be explosive, not as strong now. My scrotum seems looser and saggier as well. I haven't been sleeping as well, two or three nights out of the week I will wake up at 2am wide awake and can't fall back asleep for an hour or two. Sleep isn't as satisfying as it used to be.
I have started to use a 2.5mg Cialis an hour before sex just in case it is one of those days when a great erection won't happen. I don't need it every time but just use it as an insurance policy.
I have also used 5 to 15mg of Yohimbine and/or 750mg of Maca which has helped with sensitivity and achieving orgasm.
In addition to my labs, I had a complete cardiovascular exam - EKG result was great, calcium hardness score was checked and it was zero meaning no plaque. I had the penile doppler ultrasound done and have great blood flow and no venous leakage. I also had a sleep study and don't have sleep apnea.
My main current issues are lower libido, inferior erections, less sensitivity, more time and effort to orgasm, and less satisfying orgasms.
I would like to figure out what changed in me and how I can get my previous sexual self back without the assistance of Cialis or Yohimbine/Maca supplements. Unfortunately I don't have any labs from the past, but I had some detailed labs done recently (I think they missed doing the Estradiol Ultrasensitive though).
I have a feeling low free T is the issue, with my SHBG as the main culprit and my high free estradiol and mediocre total T levels being the second cause. I am new to this so any feedback, context, or insight would be appreciated, thank you so much!
6'1" 190lbs
Never smoked, don't drink, no drugs, no medication, no accidents, no porn, no surgeries, good health, eat clean, don't work out a lot but pretty active.
First sexual symptom ever was age 37 when I noticed a little bit of decreased sensitivity because it took a few more thrusts and effort to orgasm when wearing a condom. At this age of 37 I also lost a little bit of hair around my crown and I got a tiny bit of extra fat on my chest and lats and waist. But not a big deal. Still no issues ever with libido, erections, or orgasm until about age 41.
At age 41 I began to feel some real changes. I still have a strong interest in sex, but I don't feel horny all the time like I used to. I used to feel a high sexual tension that needed to get released frequently, and then when released it was gone and I felt relaxed. I don't feel that tension like I used to. I developed a few gray hairs. My penis seems a bit more shriveled when flacid and less full of life. Erections are usually ok, but not like before. It now requires more stimulation and even some days it doesn't get up very well. Nocturnal erections still happen, though not as much. Morning erections and spontaneous erections are rare now. Erections solely from sexual thoughts are very difficult to achieve. Penis and genital area sensitivity is noticeably lower than before - not numb but not great. Less sensation around penis, scrotum, testicles, perenium, anus, and pubic bone. Orgasms used to be explosive, not as strong now. My scrotum seems looser and saggier as well. I haven't been sleeping as well, two or three nights out of the week I will wake up at 2am wide awake and can't fall back asleep for an hour or two. Sleep isn't as satisfying as it used to be.
I have started to use a 2.5mg Cialis an hour before sex just in case it is one of those days when a great erection won't happen. I don't need it every time but just use it as an insurance policy.
I have also used 5 to 15mg of Yohimbine and/or 750mg of Maca which has helped with sensitivity and achieving orgasm.
In addition to my labs, I had a complete cardiovascular exam - EKG result was great, calcium hardness score was checked and it was zero meaning no plaque. I had the penile doppler ultrasound done and have great blood flow and no venous leakage. I also had a sleep study and don't have sleep apnea.
My main current issues are lower libido, inferior erections, less sensitivity, more time and effort to orgasm, and less satisfying orgasms.
I would like to figure out what changed in me and how I can get my previous sexual self back without the assistance of Cialis or Yohimbine/Maca supplements. Unfortunately I don't have any labs from the past, but I had some detailed labs done recently (I think they missed doing the Estradiol Ultrasensitive though).
I have a feeling low free T is the issue, with my SHBG as the main culprit and my high free estradiol and mediocre total T levels being the second cause. I am new to this so any feedback, context, or insight would be appreciated, thank you so much!
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