Daily Cialis and viagra when needed

Jayyy · Jan 18, 2020

Hi Folks,
Not sure whether its a right thread.
I am in the process of getting TRT as i am suffering from Low T but not sure whether it will cure my ED. I am suffering ED my whole life and never had proper erection till now.
Even Viagra dont work. I mean, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt.
So anybody have any solution? Anybody tried Daily cialis and viagra when needed?

Mountain Man · Jan 19, 2020

I have been doing that for years. I take daily cialis and add viagra when I am planning sex. My doctor suggested this method and it works great.

TRT won’t necessarily bring back erections, unless you are a younger guy. I am 66 in March and started TRT at 62 and my doctor told me this upfront. What TRT will do is give you the libido that will, in combination with pde5 inhibitors, will allow you to have strong erections.

Are you having intercourse or are you masturbating? It’s a far different story if you are masturbating. To get an erection with a pde5, you need desire and that’s difficult without a partner, at least for me. Erections are determined by a lot of different variables and a partner can be the most important one. A new partner could cause anxiety, a partner you are not into, one who is critical, all can kill an erection even with the meds. Pde5s are not aphrodisiacs, they enhance your erections but not your desire. Testosterone will give the desire, but not necessarily the strong erection you want.

For me, I don’t really enjoy masturbating and only do it if my wife is sick or unavailable. When I do try it is a lackluster experience, probably due to my lack of interest in it.

You didn’t mention your age. I’d be careful if you don’t talk to your doctor. My clinic is Abraham Morgentaler’s in Boston and allows me to take daily cialis 5mg for prostate and up to 40 mg for sex. Recently his PA has suggested the daily cialis 5-10 mg in the morning and viagra 50 to 100 mg a few hours before sex. With the cialis alone you are always ready, but when the full dose is onboard intercourse is virtually never less than 30 minutes. If you are younger, such a large dose can be a problem.

Don’t despair, there is a solution. And, don’t forget that your mind is probably 75% of the problem that you are having. Being married 32 years and having one partner for 33, sex has become an intimate experience to say the least. We work on it, communicate needs and desires and still have great sex almost every time. Good luck guy. You’ll figure this out.

Jayyy · Jan 19, 2020

Sorry I should have added more details. I am 37, single, never had gf and i am from canada. Technically, i never had sex if i exclude prostitutes.
Although I have Low T, i never had problem with libido. Infact, i used to have high libido n desire than normal people but now its decreasing.
Ya i have that problem. I dont get erection when i am with partner no matter how hot she is inspite of taking viagra. So i remember one time, i took viagra n i had rock solid erection. I dint know what combinarion i used. At that time i was using arginine, pyconogel n cialis. So i dint know what did the trick.
I think my problem is physical n not psycological.

Ya i took 5mg cialis but stopped when i got pain in upper back. I gues, i need to take 2.5mg to aviod side effects.
Tats nice to have a someone who cooperates n u truely love. I never had that experience bcas i was not confident to approach any girl due to lack of my abilities. Hopefully TRT n cialis wil cure my ED.

Mountain Man · Jan 19, 2020

I’d guarantee you that it’s not physical. Your story makes me feel anxiety just reading it. You need to take a step back and start all over. Develop friendships with women, then date, then move forward from there, back to basics type stuff. When you do get a women that you care about and that cares about you, tell her you have trouble. If she’s worth your time, she’ll become your best ally in fighting this. Also, there are many ways to please a women besides intercourse. There’s a book called She Comes First, by Ian Kerner. It explains how to satisfy a woman without intercourse. I heard the guy on a podcast and his story is somewhat like yours. His area of expertise is helping guys in your situation. You need to be with the same woman for a while, give her orgasms, and she’ll be patient enough to stay with you until you are having intercourse at will. You’re never to late for this. Also, get yourself in great shape, get a therapist that can help you with your self image, maintain good hygiene, and dress to accentuate your physique.

Jayyy · Jan 19, 2020

I 50% agree with you bcas i think my problem became psychological due to physical ED. Due to lack of confidence, I guess you missed that i had Low T and the fact that i never had proper erection or hard enough to have sex. Yes, i get erection when i masturbate and sit but when i stand up or change position, it will go or become soft.
Yes regarding relationship, I can easily build friendship with girls and infact i am more comfortable talking to girls than guys but i dint bother to have a relationship due to the inability to have sex. Sure, I will check that book and meet therpist if you think that will help.
I agree with you totally. I need to learn to be intimate with a partner or truly love. I always think about satisfying a women and never enjoy sex or enjoy making love. All the time only one think running in my mind whether she is satisfied or not.
Yes i should start work out but delaying bcas of my testosterone therapy. Its unfortunate that i have stop going to gym to decrease my t level so that i can get prescription from the doctor. thats bcas my t levels are just above low level.